How Does Koko Ask For Help?

O
Owlo

Good morning, Koko! You look a little puzzled today. What is going on?

K
Koko

Good morning, Owlo. I tried to reach the big book on the top shelf, but I just could not get it.

O
Owlo

Oh, I see. So what did you do when you could not reach it?

K
Koko

I tried jumping. Then I tried climbing the chair. Then I just gave up and sat on the floor.

O
Owlo

You tried so many things on your own. That shows great effort, Koko.

K
Koko

But I still did not get the book. I felt really frustrated.

O
Owlo

That feeling makes a lot of sense. Can I ask you something important?

K
Koko

Sure, Owlo. What is it?

O
Owlo

Did you think about asking someone for help?

K
Koko

I thought about it. But I felt a little embarrassed. Like maybe I should have been able to do it myself.

O
Owlo

That is such an honest answer, Koko. A lot of people feel that way. Even grown-ups do.

K
Koko

Really? Even you, Owlo?

O
Owlo

Absolutely. Just last week, I could not figure out how to fix the projector in the science lab. I had to ask Mr. Pip for help.

K
Koko

You asked for help too? That makes me feel better.

O
Owlo

Asking for help is not a sign that you cannot do something. It is actually a sign that you are thinking smart.

K
Koko

But how do you even ask for help? Like, what do you say?

O
Owlo

That is a wonderful question. Let us go to the library and practice together. I have an idea.

O
Owlo

Here we are. Now, pretend I am a friend and you need help reaching that book again. What would you say?

K
Koko

Um. Excuse me. Could you please help me reach that book? It is too high for me.

O
Owlo

That was perfect, Koko. You said excuse me, you asked politely, and you explained why you needed help.

K
Koko

It felt a little scary to say out loud, but also kind of good.

O
Owlo

That good feeling is called confidence. It grows every time you try something brave, like asking for help.

K
Koko

What if the person says no? That would feel really bad.

O
Owlo

Sometimes people are busy and cannot help right away. That is okay. You can say thank you anyway, and ask someone else.

K
Koko

Oh, so there is always someone else I can try.

O
Owlo

Exactly. And you know who is always happy to help you? Me. And your family too.

K
Koko

I know. I just forget sometimes that it is okay to ask.

O
Owlo

That is why we practice. The more you ask for help, the easier it gets. It becomes a good habit.

K
Koko

Like how I practiced tying my shoes until it felt normal?

O
Owlo

Exactly like that. You are making wonderful connections today, Koko.

K
Koko

Okay, Owlo. So what did I learn today? Let me think.

K
Koko

I learned that everyone needs help sometimes, even Owlo with his projector. When I need help, I can say excuse me, ask nicely, and explain what I need. And if someone is busy, I can ask someone else. Asking for help is actually really brave. Next time I want to learn about how to say sorry when I make a mistake, because that feels hard too.

O
Owlo

That is a beautiful summary, Koko. I am so proud of you today. Now, shall we go find that book together?

K
Koko

Yes please! And this time I am going to ask you properly. Owlo, could you please help me reach the big book on the top shelf?

O
Owlo

It would be my absolute pleasure, Koko. Let us go find it right now.