How Does Koko Ask For Help?
How Does Koko Ask For Help?
Good morning, Koko! You look a little puzzled today. What is going on?
Good morning, Owlo. I tried to reach the big book on the top shelf, but I just could not get it.
Oh, I see. So what did you do when you could not reach it?
I tried jumping. Then I tried climbing the chair. Then I just gave up and sat on the floor.
You tried so many things on your own. That shows great effort, Koko.
But I still did not get the book. I felt really frustrated.
That feeling makes a lot of sense. Can I ask you something important?
Sure, Owlo. What is it?
Did you think about asking someone for help?
I thought about it. But I felt a little embarrassed. Like maybe I should have been able to do it myself.
That is such an honest answer, Koko. A lot of people feel that way. Even grown-ups do.
Really? Even you, Owlo?
Absolutely. Just last week, I could not figure out how to fix the projector in the science lab. I had to ask Mr. Pip for help.
You asked for help too? That makes me feel better.
Asking for help is not a sign that you cannot do something. It is actually a sign that you are thinking smart.
But how do you even ask for help? Like, what do you say?
That is a wonderful question. Let us go to the library and practice together. I have an idea.
Here we are. Now, pretend I am a friend and you need help reaching that book again. What would you say?
Um. Excuse me. Could you please help me reach that book? It is too high for me.
That was perfect, Koko. You said excuse me, you asked politely, and you explained why you needed help.
It felt a little scary to say out loud, but also kind of good.
That good feeling is called confidence. It grows every time you try something brave, like asking for help.
What if the person says no? That would feel really bad.
Sometimes people are busy and cannot help right away. That is okay. You can say thank you anyway, and ask someone else.
Oh, so there is always someone else I can try.
Exactly. And you know who is always happy to help you? Me. And your family too.
I know. I just forget sometimes that it is okay to ask.
That is why we practice. The more you ask for help, the easier it gets. It becomes a good habit.
Like how I practiced tying my shoes until it felt normal?
Exactly like that. You are making wonderful connections today, Koko.
Okay, Owlo. So what did I learn today? Let me think.
I learned that everyone needs help sometimes, even Owlo with his projector. When I need help, I can say excuse me, ask nicely, and explain what I need. And if someone is busy, I can ask someone else. Asking for help is actually really brave. Next time I want to learn about how to say sorry when I make a mistake, because that feels hard too.
That is a beautiful summary, Koko. I am so proud of you today. Now, shall we go find that book together?
Yes please! And this time I am going to ask you properly. Owlo, could you please help me reach the big book on the top shelf?
It would be my absolute pleasure, Koko. Let us go find it right now.