Owlo:
Good morning, Koko! You look a little puzzled today. What is going on?
Koko:
Good morning, Owlo. I tried to reach the big book on the top shelf, but I just could not get it.
Owlo:
Oh, I see. So what did you do when you could not reach it?
Koko:
I tried jumping. Then I tried climbing the chair. Then I just gave up and sat on the floor.
Owlo:
You tried so many things on your own. That shows great effort, Koko.
Koko:
But I still did not get the book. I felt really frustrated.
Owlo:
That feeling makes a lot of sense. Can I ask you something important?
Koko:
Sure, Owlo. What is it?
Owlo:
Did you think about asking someone for help?
Koko:
I thought about it. But I felt a little embarrassed. Like maybe I should have been able to do it myself.
Owlo:
That is such an honest answer, Koko. A lot of people feel that way. Even grown-ups do.
Koko:
Really? Even you, Owlo?
Owlo:
Absolutely. Just last week, I could not figure out how to fix the projector in the science lab. I had to ask Mr. Pip for help.
Koko:
You asked for help too? That makes me feel better.
Owlo:
Asking for help is not a sign that you cannot do something. It is actually a sign that you are thinking smart.
Koko:
But how do you even ask for help? Like, what do you say?
Owlo:
That is a wonderful question. Let us go to the library and practice together. I have an idea.
Owlo:
Here we are. Now, pretend I am a friend and you need help reaching that book again. What would you say?
Koko:
Um. Excuse me. Could you please help me reach that book? It is too high for me.
Owlo:
That was perfect, Koko. You said excuse me, you asked politely, and you explained why you needed help.
Koko:
It felt a little scary to say out loud, but also kind of good.
Owlo:
That good feeling is called confidence. It grows every time you try something brave, like asking for help.
Koko:
What if the person says no? That would feel really bad.
Owlo:
Sometimes people are busy and cannot help right away. That is okay. You can say thank you anyway, and ask someone else.
Koko:
Oh, so there is always someone else I can try.
Owlo:
Exactly. And you know who is always happy to help you? Me. And your family too.
Koko:
I know. I just forget sometimes that it is okay to ask.
Owlo:
That is why we practice. The more you ask for help, the easier it gets. It becomes a good habit.
Koko:
Like how I practiced tying my shoes until it felt normal?
Owlo:
Exactly like that. You are making wonderful connections today, Koko.
Koko:
Okay, Owlo. So what did I learn today? Let me think.
Koko:
I learned that everyone needs help sometimes, even Owlo with his projector. When I need help, I can say excuse me, ask nicely, and explain what I need. And if someone is busy, I can ask someone else. Asking for help is actually really brave. Next time I want to learn about how to say sorry when I make a mistake, because that feels hard too.
Owlo:
That is a beautiful summary, Koko. I am so proud of you today. Now, shall we go find that book together?
Koko:
Yes please! And this time I am going to ask you properly. Owlo, could you please help me reach the big book on the top shelf?
Owlo:
It would be my absolute pleasure, Koko. Let us go find it right now.